Uncultured Man Disappointed as Girlfriend’s Mother, Whom He Traveled Across the World to Meet, Didn’t Prepare Any ‘Real’ Food for Dinner

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    Posted by u/Throw Raore-Ostrich 19 hours ago AITA for didn't you tell my mom to cook American dishes for my American boyfriend for a family dinner? He said that the dishes my mom cooked were gross and he starved
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    I come from a multinational family. My mother is a Volga Tatar (a national minority of Russia) and a Russian, my father, who died two years ago, is Ukrainian and Belarusian. My parents lived in both Russia and Ukraine, and in 2015, my whole family moved to my mom's relatives in Turkey.
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    In my family, all national dishes were always cooked and served on the table. My boyfriend is an American. A week ago, we flew with him to my mother in Turkey, and she made national dishes. There were dishes of Tatar, Russian, Belarusian and Ukrainian cuisine, as well as several dishes of Turkish cuisine
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    During dinner, my boyfriend looked annoyed. He barely touched the dishes. My mom asked him if he liked the food. He replied rather irritably that he was not hungry. After dinner was over and we moved into my room, I asked what was wrong. My boyfriend rudely said that in the civilized world, eating horse meat is as wild as eating human flesh. (Horsemeat sausage is a national dish of the Tatars).
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    He also said that okroshka (this dish is traditionally eaten in eastern Europe in the summer, but my mom cooked it now so my boyfriend could try it) looks and smells gross. He ridiculed all the other dishes, saying that they all either consist of potatoes with meat and dough alone, or are too 'Soviet' and were invented in the USSR during a food shortage, so they are just incongruous dirt. All Turkish sweets were 'sweet' for him.
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    I asked him why he was so mean, and he said it would be decent if my mom cooked some of his usual American dishes and that he was hungry because of me. AITA?
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    My mom just wanted him to get to know the culture of our family. There was nothing wrong with the dishes she cooked. If he didn't want to eat horse meat or okroshka, he could eat traditional Tatar triangular pies with potatoes and duck meat. There was also a whole dried goose on the table (it's very tasty) and sweets with honey. Should I really tell my mom to cook American dishes?
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    AR jennyfromtheeblock 19 hr. ago. edited 15 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA. ● Get this guy out of your house. He is rude, entitled, boorish, crass, and an embarrassment to the United States.
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    He also does not care about you. If he did, he would gratefully try every dish and be excited to learn about your culture. He is also not very bright as you can't even get the ingredients you need to make traditional American food in your location. Do not waste your life with this person.
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    sailshonan 17 hr. ago That's just mean. Dump him at a McDonald's 1.4k Reply Share
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    Gennevieve1 15 hr. ago ● This is a weird thing I noticed with many Americans - they fly over half of the globe to see a foreign country and they don't try any of the local food, they eat generic pizza and burgers the whole time. It's a shame though, they miss out on so many wonderful experiences. Unfortunately OP's BF seems to be one of those on top of being rude and just plain stupid.
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    Japanat1 19 hr. ago ● No, he's rude, boorish, crass and typical of half the US population. I'm an American living overseas, and half of the people I know would be grateful to OP's mom for cooking these dishes and enthusiastic to try them.
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    The other half, however... ...would go to McD's for every meal rather than try something new.
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    I'm from the western countryside, and most of my friends own horses. If I told them that I've eaten horse (I have, and it's delicious!), half of them would never speak to me again. Even sitting here typing this out right now, I feel a little guilty for having eaten horse meat on numerous occasions and having enjoyed it. Bazushi is fantastic... - horse sushi 4 1.5k Reply Share
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    dahliaukifune 19 hr. ago I ate horse liver here in Japan and there are few things in life I regret more 256 ● Gruselaffe Reply Share 19 hr. ago you don't have to like it, but you tried, and that's what counts
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    DSmith- 18 hr. ago I think they regret trying it lol. It's taboo in the US to eat horse meat
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    LadyPillboxChocolate 18 hr. ago ● Not just taboo. Illegal. At least in my experience. The two states I've lived in both have laws against the sale of horse meat for human consumption, and one had a law against eating horse meat.
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    AHOY p_kh 16 hr. ago Ironically many Us meat products can't be imported into the EU because of food safety standards.
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    HermitGardner 17 hr. ago Honestly, if you eat pork, you're eating some thing smarter and just as friendly as dogs it's really sad. There's no difference between any of these animals were talking about horses, dogs, cats pigs, cows. All equal as food, all equal as pets. it shouldn't be some are and some aren't. It just doesn't make sense.
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    FlappyDolphin 72. 17 hr. ago It's pretty privilege but for animals
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    sociopvthy 18 hr. ago i'm a vegetarian and one of the VERY few things i miss is smoked horse meat

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